Navigating friendships with Danes for new arrivals in Denmark
Making friends as a foreign newcomer in Denmark can be challenging, but it's not an impossible feat. In a recent survey, we asked our readers about the importance of Danish friends in feeling settled and belonging in the country.
Philip, a resident of West Jutland, suggests learning Danish and joining a club or activity to increase social interaction and make Danish friends. Joining a club or association is a popular suggestion due to the large prevalence and popularity of such groups in Denmark.
Varghese from Kolding emphasizes the importance of understanding Danish culture when trying to make friends. He advises against badmouthing Denmark, as some Danes may take it personally. Instead, he suggests being patient and friendly, and meeting Danes on their own terms.
Hybrè Davids, a resident of Copenhagen, agrees that having a specific hobby or interest can help in making Danish friends. He recommends joining clubs such as paddle, rowing, or boardgames. However, he also notes that it might be too late to make Danish friends if one is not already part of a sports club or was not around Danish children when they were seven years old.
For some, Danish friends can be vital for practical or emotional reasons, while others see it as less important. Opinions varied on whether Danish friends are necessary for feeling settled in the country. Maria from Greece, a resident of Copenhagen, stated that one does not need Danish friends to feel at home.
The "be yourself" approach was also recommended. Readers suggest being friends with people you get along with, regardless of their nationality or culture. It's important to remember that Danes value authenticity and honesty.
Talking to Danes repeatedly without taking it personally if they don't want to hang out was also recommended. It takes at least two years of being acquainted with a Dane before they might consider asking for a drink.
For those looking to interact with Danes, readers suggest joining local activity groups such as guided canal tours in Copenhagen, visiting popular social places like Tivoli Gardens, and participating in cultural or outdoor activities like visiting the Viking Center near Ribe or the Wattenmeer center. These activities facilitate interaction with Danes through shared experiences and workshops.
In conclusion, making friends with Danes can be challenging due to their settled routines and longstanding friendship groups. However, with patience, understanding, and a genuine interest in Danish culture, it is possible to form meaningful relationships with Danes.
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