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Strategies for Dealing with Those Who Outshine You in Achievements

Trish Hopkinson, a writer and blogger, shared an article from Daniella Levy on rejection and the importance of hope, which serves as a prelude to this current blog. This re-posting sparked a reflective response in Daniella.

Strategies for Controlling Envy Towards Those More Achieved Than Yourself
Strategies for Controlling Envy Towards Those More Achieved Than Yourself

Strategies for Dealing with Those Who Outshine You in Achievements

In the world of literature, Daniella Levy stands as a beacon of resilience and determination. Known for her articles, short fiction, and poetry, Levy's works have graced various publications, and her books, such as "By Light of Hidden Candles" and "Letters to Josep: An Introduction to Judaism," have left an indelible mark.

Levy's online presence extends beyond the written word. At LetterstoJosep.com, she blogs about Judaism, life in Israel, and the creative journey, offering insights into her life and experiences. Her blog, "The Rejection Survival Guide," delves into the challenges faced by creatives and the importance of resilience in the face of rejection.

One of Levy's most inspiring pieces, titled "The Value of Hope," was reposted by Trish Hopkinson. The article, which explores the creative life and the transformative power of hope, resonated deeply with many, including a fellow writer who had previously experienced rejection before publication.

Anne Lamott, a renowned author, offers insights into jealousy in her book "Bird by Bird." Lamott suggests that jealousy, a natural response, is made up of hurt, anger, and fear. She encourages us to examine it thoroughly and not shove it under the rug. In this vein, Levy's path to publication, marked by frustration, disappointment, repeated failure, and "almosts," serves as a testament to the complexities of success in the arts.

Lamott also discusses the idea that some successful writers may not be deserving, a sentiment that Levy acknowledges. In a competitive market like the arts, success often depends on factors beyond talent and skill, such as Divine providence or dumb luck.

However, Levy encourages us not to let jealousy consume us. Instead, she suggests taking action, such as creating something new or submitting work, as a means to own our paths and turn frustration into hope. It is normal and legitimate to feel jealous, but lashing out or being cruel to someone because of jealousy is not acceptable.

In a world where success stories can seem daunting, Levy's journey offers a refreshing perspective. Despite the challenges, she remains optimistic, believing that a higher Being has a plan for her. This inspiring author invites us to reflect on our own paths, to embrace our talents, and to never give up in the pursuit of our dreams.

To learn more about Daniella Levy and her work, visit her website at Daniella-Levy.com.

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