Trump's Self-Aggrandizing Charisma: A Delusional View of Greatness
In the political landscape, few figures have been as divisive as Donald Trump. Psychologists and observers suggest that the former President's behaviour may be rooted in narcissistic traits.
Narcissists, such as Donald Trump, are driven by a need for conquest and winning to reaffirm their power. The thrill of the chase seems to hold more appeal for them than the acquisition itself. This dynamic is evident in Trump's public statements, where he frequently mentions grandiose, unrealistic ambitions, like building a cheap, impenetrable wall paid for by Mexico.
Trump's immodesty and exaggerated self-importance are commensurate with hidden shame, a common trait among narcissists. His need for total recognition and admiration from others is also a hallmark of narcissistic personality disorder. This desire for admiration was evident in his book, "Donald Trump: Master Apprentice," where he stated his desire for "total recognition."
Narcissists, including Trump, have a "my way or the highway" attitude and don't like to hear no. They can manipulate and punish others for turning them down. If their demands are not met, they can throw a childlike tantrum, as suggested by psychologist Darlene Lancer in her book, "Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People."
Victory bolsters unexpressed feelings of insufficiency for narcissists like Trump. He has hinted at this in past statements, suggesting that victory serves as a means to mask his insecurities. Intimacy and vulnerability, however, are frightening and abhorrent to narcissists like Trump. He has expressed difficulty in connecting emotionally and prioritizing business over relationships.
Trump's upbringing may have played a role in shaping his narcissistic tendencies. According to Esquire's January 2004 issue, he learned to attack from his father. The pressure to excel, being better than their fathers, was a constant theme in the lives of Trump and his high school roommate, Ted Levine.
Narcissists work hard to maintain their image, not only for others but for themselves. This image is crucial for their self-esteem, as their hidden shame often fuels their need for validation. For male narcissists like Trump, achieving power is their highest value.
If one is in a relationship with a narcissist, effective strategies for dealing with them can be found in Lancer's book. The book provides practical advice on raising self-esteem and setting boundaries with difficult people.
It's important to note that this analysis is based on observable behaviour and the interpretations of psychologists and observers. The name of the person Trump cites in his book "Surviving at the Top" to describe the mindset and motivation of narcissists is not explicitly mentioned in the provided search results. However, understanding the dynamics of narcissistic behaviour can provide valuable insights into Trump's actions and motivations.
In conclusion, Donald Trump's behaviour suggests characteristics of a narcissist, including a need for conquest, an exaggerated self-importance, and a "my way or the highway" attitude. Understanding these traits can help us better comprehend his actions and motivations during his time in office.
